Hello Paradoxan,

The word Paradox means ‘opposite ideas at the same time, which needs both ideas to make a truth’ or ‘ it could also mean you are both very sensitive and very cruel’.

You have come in defense of ‘May’ and responded to my post. You said ‘Who do you think you are to judge others? What right do you had to insult others? Do you really understand what “justice” stands for?’ You are quite correct, agree with you 110% and I do hope you and others in the Forum must practice first before you preach me. My post was a Reaction to their initial Action. When you talk about ‘Justice’, each and every one of us has the basic right to defend any accusations thrown their way. We have tolerance but when it gets over the top many times, then it is time to draw the line and retaliate.

‘You may not used foul language but your intention that reveals in your swanky high flown words and statements are equally as filthy and foul but in a different lavished style of course. Writing nice words and phrases and statements with foul stinky mind is even worse for you are hiding your true identity and intention with cosmetic winky washy ways.’

You are quite correct that I used ‘swanky high flown words and statements’ to send my message across to him/her purely as a reminder to stop and reflect inwardly. Honestly, there is no malicious intent on my part to denigrate a person. Whether you believe or not is up to you. You will also notice that I have not quote the filthy words they use in my post. We don’t know each other from Adams. So, is it necessary to call names, swear and abuse each other to get our message across? If we are behaving as such over the internet can you imagine what would happened if we are lump in the same room. Do we go for each other throat? I don’t think that is a civilized way to solve problems.

‘May is blunt and straight to the point not to mention his frankness. As for you, you hide in your pretty writings with ugly mind. It is crystal clear for intelligent people to read and understand you true intentions. Even in murder case if one commits it without intention is lighter that the one who did it with intention. Your writing reveals your intentions to discredit May. Remember, cosmetic is a camouflage, deceptive cover up of evil minds and ways.’

I will have no problems and can hack it, if May was just being blunt, straight to the point and frankness. But swearing filthy words without provocation and lack of respect to others is another matter. It is not a good attribute. It really high lights his/her background and trait, lacking in moral and ethical status. As I have said before this Asiaobserver is a forum where we can discuss and debate intelligently and meaningful, my mind is crystal clear and very pure.

Public Relation is to get your message across while enhancing the Image. Communication Skill is expressing well to get a message across and make the other person understand what you are conveying. Blunt, Straight forwardness and Frankness get you nowhere

‘As for a dozen cake of Carbolic soap and disinfectant Toilet Cleaners Domestos/Harpic (Hospital Double Strength) and hard brushes to give his foul mouth a good wash out’. Well, it is just a metaphor directed at May to remind and to change the obnoxious attitude and behavior. There is always ‘Equal and Opposite Reaction’.

This will be last response to all abusive post in the future. I will just ignore them and will not denigrate myself and stoop to their lowly level. It will be water off the duck’s back. If they still wish to wallow in the cesspit or cesspool, be my guest. Go for your life and enjoy to your heart content.

We have no quarrel and don’t need to cross swords. We must learn to ‘Agree to Disagree’.

Thank you Paradoxan, you did noticed that one can use polite words to have the same effect and impact without resorting to use foul, filthy, coarse and abusive swear words to get hit.

I am Polaris (Always be there at the same place and shining brightly as ever)