Dear Jac
Nice to hear frm a kind and objective person like u; )though there still exist some language gap between communication,but simply ok.i never being hard work with my eng,as long as i got passion with one thing,i m learning german,which gave me lots energetic and let me found english's original editon; )
I know many foreigners dont know the real China,and we even we no longer be friends since they insist things i cant stand...Also some of them very like me that i m not move following mass,one of them told me,when he said taiwan is a country,i almost kill him,yes,i m serious and sensible with this issue. Finally he said it's ur country's business,we cant give a judgement,besides we dont know the the truth...and i think it's ok for a foreigner's attitude.As for taiwan,frm ancient time it's already one part of china,just some people for their own political power want being the highest leader of a country.Normally one want being the leader is not wrong,but for the whole country or most people's feeling,it really hurt.Sadly we must give good reasons for unify,frm my feeling,i sometimes really being hurt,image the mother give birth to babies,but there are people even some of the babies themselves dont acknowledge her!!!and let her give out good reason,what a thing!
I know the enviroment gives strong effects to the people,so many people very stubborn and even become numb and stupid... it cant been avoid,i believe there must be some ways need to use that seemed as force activities.
Because there exists this kind of people

ome chinese people going abroad could people frm hong kong or taiwan,and they found they dont want tell people they are frm China,instead they tell others they are frm hong kong,taiwan... they are cold people,and i look down of them,now china become have much power in many area,and i m sure many of them must like tell people they are frm China. See,for this kind of people,need we give a good reason to tell them their counry is China?just when motherland give them honour they like tell they are chinese...
It's also can be part of reason that our media being controlled,but one thing it's no dounbt right,always keep the fresh of the leading group. So that it avoids that a man who is leading a country with update ideas. Not a country could suffer a big wrong decision of leaders,that's horrible...
In my life i really have little interesting with some politics issue,i think it's just several people's game...but when people talk about these especially foreigners i have to be serious and take care the situations,lucky my grand generation are all frm army and navy,and my father much very into politics...i always heard things frm him,but i never believe others so easily! World is much bigger than i know,now i understand one thing,people cant be so narrow,just think of things arround himself,there are many problems and people need many others care,and dont just think about self.Also as a person should try to hold critical thinking of our country,be awareness and responsible. That's my point.